I just got done listening to a fantastic positive audio and wanted to share a key point:
look for the gold
Meaning: don’t be a whiner & complainer.
Rather than do what the avg person does, which is look for and comment on everything that’s wrong with a situation, instead Look for the Gold!
Look for what’s right with any given situation. Look for what you can be grateful and thankful for.
Think about it…do you want better things in your life? Do you want to see improvements in you relationships & business?
Watch the words you use!
Do you walk out on a hot day and complain about how sticky it is? Or, do you say, “I’m so thankful for this warm, beautiful day?”
Are you always saying, “I didn’t like this…I didn’t like that…I don’t like how she says this or that….I wish this person would do it this way instead”
Look for the gold
Start finding what’s right in your life and it’s amazing how you’ll start
seeing more of what’s right in your life.
Focus on the negative and it’s amazing how much more negative stuff shows up in your life.
Look for the gold
I encourage you today to start changing the “story” you tell others. If you’re always telling people about the ding in your car, the pain in your back, the way everyone is always talking about you behind your back, the way the economy has changed your business…
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah
Really, you need to step outside yourself because when you start talking like that, it’s exactly how others hear it:
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah
They don’t want to hear that stuff. Or, they’re feeling great that their life sounds better than yours!
However, if you start talking about all the great and wonderful things
in your life that you’re thankful and grateful for, watch out because you’re going to start having more meaningful relationships and more business.
You’re going to smile more
You’re going to enjoy your life more
You’re going to be a light in the lives of those around you.
No longer will people shy away from you because they’re tired of your complaining and whining and “woe is me” and hearing about how bad crap is.
I know my life began changing for the better when I stopped talking like that and when I removed the folks in my life who did the same.
Watch your words
Change your words
Change your life








